The girl coming over tonight. (Her pic)

[GrammarNazi82]

*shaking my head at the turn of events this thread took*

Anyway..... I like and agree with many of the posts from the earlier pages of this thread. It's always a breath of fresh air to see/hear guys not being so superficial and having their priorities straight (i.e. saying get to know the chick and see how things go before worrying what your buddies think). I also find it endlessly amusing that some think just because a person -- male or female -- has some extra weight automatically equates to them being a lousy lay. Man at all the awesome sex you can miss out on.

My basic thing is just focus on whether you've got chemistry with the person or not. Looks play into that, but so do many other factors, and weight shouldn't be a predominant issue. There's too much else to focus on and connect to her with.

As far as acting like the weight isn't the big issue and you just not knowing if you're ready yet, then yeah, by all means do carefully think that out before you do anything you might regret or whatnot. You're the only one who knows or can decide if you're ready or not though.

 

[Big Hoss Rambler]

 

[Crayo]

*shaking my head at the turn of events this thread took*

Anyway..... I like and agree with many of the posts from the earlier pages of this thread. It's always a breath of fresh air to see/hear guys not being so superficial and having their priorities straight (i.e. saying get to know the chick and see how things go before worrying what your buddies think). I also find it endlessly amusing that some think just because a person -- male or female -- has some extra weight automatically equates to them being a lousy lay. Man at all the awesome sex you can miss out on.

My basic thing is just focus on whether you've got chemistry with the person or not. Looks play into that, but so do many other factors, and weight shouldn't be a predominant issue. There's too much else to focus on and connect to her with.

As far as acting like the weight isn't the big issue and you just not knowing if you're ready yet, then yeah, by all means do carefully think that out before you do anything you might regret or whatnot. You're the only one who knows or can decide if you're ready or not though.

Liked!

Pretty much summarises my opening posts. You put it a lot better though.

 

[Aids Johnson]

You don't have a flame war with Mike Aids, you don't ever come out the other side the same. He's a boss.

says the guy who politely disagrees with stupidity, while getting butthurt over things like rep-posting. Hypocrite.

Mike's IQ in the original post was 115, look at my reply first, then it was 120 for yours. Learn. To. Read.

Mike you have no idea of standards, i am making 30k before college, 60k after, then you are going to make 80-100k after college with no basis inbetween? Someone has a rich daddy. He makes up for not liking you with money, i get that now.

I make about 30k and am in college, after ill start at over 80k because the EVPH degree will get me that, and within 5 years i have a plan with someone to own a restaurant business. I dont give a shit how much we make, because im more about success than the almighty dollar. Keep posting your joint pics and randomly posting IQ status. Fucking joke dude, go overdose on the pills your mom takes to put up with you every day.

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anyone want to bet Mikes next post is to get off his dick? Im not on your dick, that is about people who idolize someone based on who they appear to be. I am hating on you because you are a dolt and deserve nothing over the hate i spew at you. Call me a Nope again, you ignorant waste of space. This kind of shit makes my day a lot better than cashing my undersized paychecks that still afford me the luxuries your parents have to give to you because you are too good to work for anything yourself. IQ 120? Your high school class list proves it?

 

[GrammarNazi82]

Liked!

Pretty much summarises my opening posts. You put it a lot better though.

Aww, thanks! : I'll credit that to the whole "woman's perspective" thing.

 

[Dat Girl]

Aww, thanks! : I'll credit that to the whole "woman's perspective" thing.

Woman's Perspective?

Spoiler

 

[Aids Johnson]

Woman's Perspective?

Spoiler

Lol @ farooq, so boss. Womans perspective from you, or Crayo? :troll:

 

[Mike.]

says the guy who politely disagrees with stupidity, while getting butthurt over things like rep-posting. Hypocrite.

Mike's IQ in the original post was 115, look at my reply first, then it was 120 for yours. Learn. To. Read.

Mike you have no idea of standards, i am making 30k before college, 60k after, then you are going to make 80-100k after college with no basis inbetween? Someone has a rich daddy. He makes up for not liking you with money, i get that now.

I make about 30k and am in college, after ill start at over 80k because the EVPH degree will get me that, and within 5 years i have a plan with someone to own a restaurant business. I dont give a s*** how much we make, because im more about success than the almighty dollar. Keep posting your joint pics and randomly posting IQ status. F**cking joke dude, go overdose on the pills your mom takes to put up with you every day.

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anyone want to bet Mikes next post is to get off his dick? Im not on your dick, that is about people who idolize someone based on who they appear to be. I am hating on you because you are a dolt and deserve nothing over the hate i spew at you. Call me a ***** again, you ignorant waste of space. This kind of s*** makes my day a lot better than cashing my undersized paychecks that still afford me the luxuries your parents have to give to you because you are too good to work for anything yourself. IQ 120? Your high school class list proves it?

yeah 5 points get over it, you are the moron telling me to kill myself because I'm in high school, shows how mature you are. I need no basis for inbetween I have jobs lined up for what I'm going to college for the starting rate out of highschool with no college is 60k, then 80-100k with college degrees, Why bring my dad into this? I am the one making my own money. My success will be far superior to yours. If you fuck with pills you deserve to die. You are actually on my dick trying to talk shit to me when you know absolutely nothing about me. Also I pay for all of my shit, you don't see my parents putting me through school or paying my car insurance, I'm doing it by myself and I will be successful. I will be a millionaire and you will have a little local restaurant. Enjoy your life you pathetic moron.

 

[Stopspot]

After having read this thread I feel like it's time for me to be serious here.

Ryback: You might have interpreted me posting the Queen song Fat bottomed girls as either a joker or a jib at you but it was neither. That song speaks a lot of truth. Trust me.

As a guy who dated and slept with both larger and smaller women I can say that size does not really matter. In fact I can say that the larger girls are often better in bed with a little practice than skinny girls. But like some on here already said, size should not be the determining factor for you sleeping with someone. It should be how you feel about that person that determines if you make her your bedfellow or not.

Personal chemistry is a much more important factor for great sex than looks and this girl seems to think you two would have great chemistry. If you feel ready for it and you honestly like the girl then go for it. If you don't feel ready then kudos to you and wait it out, I myself did that and it was well worth the wait.

If your friends judge you and think you un-cool for sleeping with a certain person then punch them in the balls and leave those scrubs by the wayside. They don't decide or pick who YOU choose to be intimate with. That is you and you only.

Also @Mike: Fat guys can't get skinny girls? That's bullcrap. I have plenty of larger friends who pull very attractive skinny girls when we go out to party. I myself was huskier for a while and still managed to pick up nice looking women. It is not about size but about personality, how you act, dress and talk to them. Women are not just things to point at and say "You, me, bed then sandwich". Women a beautiful and lovely creatures and most importantly people that should be respected. That high school mentality of chicks just being there to have their holes filled doesn't work in the real world.

 

[Mike.]

After having read this thread I feel like it's time for me to be serious here.

Ryback: You might have interpreted me posting the Queen song Fat bottomed girls as either a joker or a jib at you but it was neither. That song speaks a lot of truth. Trust me.

As a guy who dated and slept with both larger and smaller women I can say that size does not really matter. In fact I can say that the larger girls are often better in bed with a little practice than skinny girls. But like some on here already said, size should not be the determining factor for you sleeping with someone. It should be how you feel about that person that determines if you make her your bedfellow or not.

Personal chemistry is a much more important factor for great sex than looks and this girl seems to think you two would have great chemistry. If you feel ready for it and you honestly like the girl then go for it. If you don't feel ready then kudos to you and wait it out, I myself did that and it was well worth the wait.

If your friends judge you and think you un-cool for sleeping with a certain person then punch them in the balls and leave those scrubs by the wayside. They don't decide or pick who YOU choose to be intimate with. That is you and you only.

Also @Mike: Fat guys can't get skinny girls? That's bullcrap. I have plenty of larger friends who pull very attractive skinny girls when we go out to party. I myself was huskier for a while and still managed to pick up nice looking women. It is not about size but about personality, how you act, dress and talk to them. Women are not just things to point at and say "You, me, bed then sandwich". Women a beautiful and lovely creatures and most importantly people that should be respected. That high school mentality of chicks just being there to have their holes filled doesn't work in the real world.

I know fat guys who can get skinny girls, I didn't mean to put it like that.

 

[Stopspot]

I know fat guys who can get skinny girls, I didn't mean to put it like that.

Ah well that was kind of how it came out when I read it. Good to have that cleared then. :haha:

 

[Dat Girl]

Of course the guy with the DDP picture makes the best reply here.

 

[Mike.]

You are in high school? Didn't you just say you were 20 years old in the Obama thread :dawg:

No? I'm 17 will be 18 before the election this year.

 

[Aids Johnson]

yeah 5 points get over it, you are the moron telling me to kill myself because I'm in high school, shows how mature you are. I need no basis for inbetween I have jobs lined up for what I'm going to college for the starting rate out of highschool with no college is 60k, then 80-100k with college degrees, Why bring my dad into this? I am the one making my own money. My success will be far superior to yours. If you F*** with pills you deserve to die. You are actually on my dick trying to talk s*** to me when you know absolutely nothing about me. Also I pay for all of my s***, you don't see my parents putting me through school or paying my car insurance, I'm doing it by myself and I will be successful. I will be a millionaire and you will have a little local restaurant. Enjoy your life you pathetic moron.

I forgot how little people who have only lived under their parents roof (your dad) have as far as understanding on the real world. A high school diploma will never get your 60k without a degree, and you would definitely have to piss to achieve that. I am saying kill yourself because you called me Nope and think posts like that are entertaining, which makes disrespectful comments unneeded and moreso illogical. Me having a restaurant will give me happiness, you keep pretending you deserve a million dollar job when you have not posted once on what you plan on doing. You pay yourself through school, and your car insurance, does that include your phone bill, the computer you have or the internet you use? Also i doubt you pay the money to go to HS, as your parents most likely pay for books/lunch at the beginning of the year. All you have are hopes and dreams, and no one owes you shit for those. Enjoy winning the lottery, as that is the most likely chance you have of gaining over a million dollars right now.

 

[Stopspot]

Of course the guy with the DDP picture makes the best reply here.

And that's not a bad thing...That's a good thing!